Category: Depression & Disability

  • A Diamond’s Best Friend

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    Greetings & Blessings Faithful Followers of Team MissionAccess!  Ponder with me this month the concept of Legacy.  How shall we honor not just the Milestones on our Christian journey but more significantly the Process we go through to prayerfully become transformed into the image of our Lord & Savior Jesus Christ?

    So let’s talk Diamonds, shall we?

    I’m not talking literal diamonds though they certainly are precious. I believe our Lord is interested in creating diamonds of a far greater value.  In fact I never cease to be amazed by how Our Awesome Lord allows suffering to produce Spiritual Diamonds out of us.

    Our Scripture passage focuses not so much on the Product but on Process:

    Psalms 66:10-22 NASB

    “For You have tried us, O God;

    You have refined us as silver is refined.

    11 You brought us into the net;

    You laid an oppressive burden upon our loins.

    12 You made men ride over our heads;

    We went through fire and through water,

    Yet You brought us out into a place of abundance.”

     Question:  Who is “You”?  And what is He doing?  More importantly who is *NOT* doing it? 

     Ah!  But Look closely:  WHY is He doing it?

    Oh Precious Peeps!  (Insert Heavy Sigh Here)  So much of our focus remains fixed on the “What” we’re going through.  And rightfully so because we are urged to “Pray Without Ceasing” (1 Thess 5:17 NASB) for others as well as ourselves.  But the Power lies not in the What but in the “WHY”:  “YET You brought us into a place of abundance!”  Amen & Hallelujah!

    Speaking of Diamond’s Best Friend…it’s God!  So why not get to know Him better?  Here’s a suggestion:  try simply spending more time with Him focused on the Why with a Daily Devotional.  Joni Eareckson Tada’s powerful classic Study entitled “Diamonds In The Dust” I Highly Recommend!

    In His Accessible Grace,

     

    Linda

     

  • Pure Joy!

    Feelin' The Joy in 2017!
    Feelin’ The Joy in 2017!

    Greetings & Blessings Faithful Followers of Team Mission Access!  While we breathe a huge sigh of relief that our collective Christmas craziness is winding down and set our hearts on a hopefully Happy New Year ahead, let’s consider something that may have may have gone MIA this season:  JOY.

    So let’s unwrap Joy, shall we?  James 1:2-4 NASU says:

    “Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, 3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance. 4 And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.”

    The Key Verse in that passage is:  Consider It All Joy.  The NIV says we are to Consider it PURE joy.  Each of those words is a Bible Study in itself!  But’s Go For The JOY.

    Doing just a simple concordance search reveals a Whole Lotta Joy in the Bible, especially in the Old Testament books of Psalms and Isaiah.  But it is only in the New Testament that a more excellent Joy is revealed:

    John 15:11 NASU

    “These things I have spoken to you so that My joy may be in you, and that your joy may be made full.

    Wow!  Check it out!  God through His mind-blowing Gift of His Son & Our Savior Jesus Christ gives us full access to His uniquely personal Joy that Lives 24/7 IN All who Believe.

    Now THAT’S a Happy New Year!

    In His Accessible Grace,

     

    Linda

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  • Don’t Buy The Lie

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    Farewell Daddy-O! See you when I get Home.

    Tragically, earlier this month Robin Williams chose to end his life.  However large the Gift of Laughter he gave us (and it was huge) I believe he gave us an even greater gift—the chance to start a SERIOUS discussion about Depression & Suicide.

    BECAUSE WE NEED TO TALK ABOUT IT!

    As Christians we need to come up with ANSWERS that Lead to Life—for ourselves, our families, our friends and for people like Robin Williams who though they seem to “have it all”—SO very desperately need a Savior.

    Ah!  But therein lies The Challenge.  Historically as a Church and as a Culture our so-called “solutions” to the problem of Depression and Suicide range wildly (and fail miserably).

    On the harsher end of the Spectrum of Solutions, in a white paper I found entitled “Suicide and Christian Moral Judgment” (a little light reading) author James T. Clemons admitted that there is confusion on the topic, citing this “solution” from John Wesley who felt that the 6th commandment of “Thou Shalt Not Murder” included “self-murder” or suicide and offered up this “easy” solution:

     

    “But how can this vile abuse of the law be prevented, and this execrable crime effectually discouraged?  

     By a very easy method.  We read in ancient history, that at a certain period, many of the women of Sparta murdered themselves.   This fury increasing, a law was made that the body of every woman who killed herself should be exposed naked in the streets.  The fury stopped at once.” http://goo.gl/LHsZmO

    Yeah verily that would be a deal-breaker for me! But seriously folks…

    What I find perhaps even more troubling is that on the other end of the Spectrum is a post-modern “all roads lead to heaven” tweet about Robin Williams (who was the voice of Genie in the animated film Aladdin) that said simply: “Genie you are now FREE!”

    Suffice to say that we’ve GOTTA come up with a better response somewhere between Condemnation on the one end and near-Glorification on the other if we are to help others NOT To Buy The Lie.  But first we need to define what “The Lie” is.  According to an online article in The Washington Post:

    “An emerging area of interest for many mental health experts is the impact of feelings that the person who attempts suicide has begun to feel he is a burden to his family and friends who he believes would be better off without him.” http://goo.gl/zmbFKD

    THAT IS A LIE FROM THE PIT OF HELL!  And I have a very personal motivation to battle it, namely my very own father, my dear Daddy-O.

    My father was invincible. But at age 79 heart disease quickly overcame him, rendering him unable to continue as full-time caregiver for my mother.  Suddenly and unexpectedly life changed for both of them, forcing them to dismantle their beloved home of 40 years and move into a nursing home.  I spent a couple of weeks with them to help ease their transition but he was simply not the same.  Little did I realize that when I waved Goodbye in Summer 2005 it would be a final farewell.  Though not by violent means like guns or pills, my father simply refused food or water and before long, he was gone.

    Looking back on that now I realize just how completely clueless I was about what was really going on.  Curious now about how The Lie of Suicide plays out in the lives of people affected by disability, I did a little research and here’s what I discovered:

    NO BODY KNOWS!  WHY NOT?  BECAUSE NO ONE EVEN BOTHERED TO DO THE RESEARCH!

    According to The Independence Center:

    “So it absolutely amazes us that even though 18.7% of all non-institutionalized civilians in America have a disability, we are virtually invisible when it comes to the issue of suicide. Recently, we came up empty-handed when we tried to find statistics on suicide as it relates to disability.” http://goo.gl/TbJyhc

    What should shock us even more than that once it was revealed the Robin Williams suffered from early onset Parkinson’s disease, suicide became almost a foregone conclusion!  In fact, The Independence Center continues with:

    “And this is not a new phenomenon. In an article published in 1992, Carol J. Gill noted that it was ironic that ‘so little suicide research has been conducted,’ on the behalf of people with disabilities since there are so many medical and legal decisions made concerning disability and the management of intentions to die. She was, of course, referring to assisted suicide. This is a twist that makes all of the difference. This is a mixed message that suggests that people with disabilities are only visible on the issue of suicide when others (doctors, judges, etc.) are making the decisions for us. Furthermore, this reinforces the notion that disability is a legitimate reason to wish for death. We could not disagree more.” http://goo.gl/TbJyhc

    Wait a minute!  Did you catch that?  “Management of Intentions To Die”?!!  Gee makes suicide sound as downright reasonable as managing your 401K, doesn’t it? Christians Wake UP!  Don’t Buy The Lie!  As a Church it’s not just our right and responsibility, but also our God-given Joy and Honor to help lead ALL people to the Management of Intentions To LIVE!  God grant us the courage to share the Good News of a Better Answer to Depression and Suicide:  LIFE through faith in our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ!